We watch many motivational videos but our energy or motivational level ends after a time. And then we start doing as we are used to. People are mostly compelled by their habit and work accordingly. No matter how much anyone makes us understand. Actually we are all like this and it is very difficult for us to change our habit but this is also true that these habits decide our future.
And our today’s topic is HABIT. Today we will come to know which habits should be there in us.
Today, we will see which effective habits should be there in a successful dentist.
When I talk to my friend Anuj, he tells me how his work is being affected because of an unethical dentist. He tells me that DCI is opening colleges by taking money and dentists are dying hungrily. He can make me understand for hours that due to oversaturation in dentistry, today dentist cannot live a good life-style.
And most of us react like my friend Anuj, because we are reactive person.
They put their concentration on those things which they cannot control. According to that they face problems due to others.
But being in this situation the proactive dentists do not focus on these things because they cannot control these. That why they focus on how they can satisfy their patients, how they can do marketing and how they should invest their money.
Do you know how much hard work you will have to do, how much time you will have to give and how much anxious you will feel if you will ask these questions from yourself. And what our mind will chose in default situation – to give more efforts or to complain by giving less efforts. That’s why more of us chose to complain about those things that we cannot do.
So, our first habit is BECOME PROACTIVE.
Imagine that you go to a hospital and you see a dead body there. But after seeing that dead body you feel like you are laid on the stretches. And now you want to hear that what people are saying about you. And this is a type of question whose answer you had never thought of.
Now tell me that your daily activities are taking you to the answer. Do you want to listen that you were a good husband/wife. If yes then spending more time at the clinic and fighting with your spouse affects your goal.
Do you want to listen that you were a good human being and did many works for the society?
So, does your daily activity taking you to that way, do you work for anyone in the society, have you changed someone’s life.
Do you want to listen that you were a famous dentist?
Do you improve your skills? Do you constantly work for the satisfaction of the patients?
So, basically you have to ask yourself that your daily activities are taking you towards your goal or not.
So, our second habit is BEGIN WITH END IN MIND.
If I ask you that what is the most important thing for you then more chances of your answer will be that to remain healthy and live happily with family. You will never tell me that to see face book feed, TV or doing time pass is the important thing for you.
But most of us do these things only. If we have empty time we like to scroll the face book feed and neither go to the gym for workout nor spend time with family.
Now, our third habit is PUT FIRST THING FIRST.
Imagine that you and me run dental clinics and the clinic of both of us works ok – ok and we both give a lot of efforts in increasing OPD.
One day, I saw the pamphlet of your clinic and I liked it. I decide to meet you. When we meet I shared my marketing incidents with you that how much profit and loss I am getting.
After seeing my honesty you also told me that you had print the pamphlet and how much useful it was to you.
When we start doing marketing together, we both apply our mind and a new idea is created. Higher quantity makes things cheaper. Hearing each other’s mistake, we avoid doing the same mistakes again.
But this does not happen in actual scenario. If we get profit in something we don’t share it. And we make jokes by putting pamphlet on face book. But from this you will not get much benefit.
So, there is a very big gap between what we say and what we do.